Sadly, we lost another Cushing’s patient on Friday, May 9, 2014. Melinda was a member of the Cushing’s Help message boards since Jun 24, 2007.
She was only 25 and leaves behind a young son and many loving family members.
Just last year she posted:
I’m not really sure where to put this post so I’ll just put it here under miscellaneous.
Last Friday was probably the closest I’ve ever come to actually dying. Luckily, my dad came downstairs to check on me. At some point Friday I completely blacked out and my dad found me totally unresponsive, barely breathing with foam in my mouth. The paramedics told my dad that if he hadn’t found me when he did I would of definitely died.
Nobody knows what caused this to happen. The hospital is trying to say that I overdosed on drugs, which is TOTALLY 100% untrue. Especially, since I hadn’t even taken my medicine because I was staying up with my mom to help her clean and move my stuff upstairs from the basement. By the time the ambulance got me to the hospital I was still unresponsive and my kidneys had shut down.
I don’t remember anything from Friday or really much from Thursday night. All I remember is waking up in the ICU at the hospital in the middle of the night with some grumpy nurses who kept asking me why I tried to kill myself. I just don’t understand where they got the idea that I was trying to commit suicide, all of my medication was accounted for plus some.
Another thing, now I’m on oxygen 24/7. Since Friday I have a hard time breathing so the hospital sent me home with an oxygen tank. I feel so old. I’m only 24 and I don’t even smoke yet I’m stuck with an oxygen tank. Something just isn’t right.
We talked with my regular doctor and she thinks that I might of had a stroke or maybe a seizure. I go see her on Wednesday. But until then I can’t do anything and have to be supervised at all times.
It’s really strange, I’m being treated like a baby but I feel like I’m 80. I just want to be a normal 24 year old and feel like my age.
Information from the obituary at http://www.stephenson-wyman.com/obituaries/Melinda-Smith/#!/Obituary:
Melinda “Mindy” Smith, age 25, of Harrison, passed away suddenly on Friday, May 9, at her home. Mindy had attended Farwell High School where she had been an honor student and participated in track and cheerleading. She graduated from Clare High School in 2005. She was currently attending college and was hoping to pursue a career as a Psychiatrist. Mindy talked often of becoming a doctor to help others who were struggling with Cushing’s Disease.
Mindy had been battling a fight with Cushing’s Disease since 2005. She fought hard and long, but unfortunately it was a fight that she could not win. She was loved by many, but will be missed by many more.
Mindy is survived by her son, Landon Smith, parents, Deb (Marc) Davis, Fred (Nola) Riggs, of Harrison, and Ralph Rydman, her special friend, Ryan Smith, siblings, Alisha Green of Farwell, Marrissa Rydman of Gresham, Oregon, Misty Riggs of Weidman and Mike Riggs and Seth Riggs both of Florida, her grandparents, Gary (Penny) Smith of Clare, Sheryl (Phil) Wentworth of Harrison, Janet Riggs of Harrison, and Jay Davis of Clare. Also surviving are many aunts, uncles, and cousins that will miss her dearly. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Dawn Wiggins of Muskegon, Harold Riggs of Harrison, and Carol Davis of Clare.
Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, May 14, at 2:00 PM at the Clare Chapel of Stephenson-Wyman Funeral Home with pastor John Kasper officiating. Friends may meet with her family at the funeral home on Wednesday from 11 AM until the time of services. Memorials may be directed to the family.
Rest in peace, Melinda
May 11, 2014 @ 19:54:13
I am so heartbroken about Melinda’s passing. I have tried so hard to get her more help especially recently. I loved talking to her on the phone and on Facebook. She has been a big part of my life in the last decade. This broken system has failed her and her little boy and family and I am so mad. This should never happen this day in age. Thank you Mary O for the boards , this is where I have met lifelong true friends. May her beautiful soul rest in peace without the pain and suffering of Cushings.
May 11, 2014 @ 19:54:58
Hi, Mary…you have the date wrong at the top of the post. 🙂
May 11, 2014 @ 21:12:43
I do? Her niece said it was yesterday. Wasn’t that the 10th?
On Saturday May 10, her niece posted “Today I lost an amazingly inelegant niece who was only 25. She had a very hard life that I can’t imagine the strength it took for her to go threw each day…”
May 11, 2014 @ 21:21:41
It’s 1988, not 1998 (see your title..). 🙂
May 11, 2014 @ 21:27:30
Duh – thanks!
I went back and read her niece’s post again, too. It might have been Friday, the 9th, since she posted at 12:01am
May 11, 2014 @ 21:24:18
Im so sorry to hear of her passing. I didnt know her but to me when we all have such difficult things in common it links us together. My heart and deepest sympathy goes out to her family and friends.
May God bless you all
May 12, 2014 @ 19:04:22
Hugs To All The Family.May She RIP
May 13, 2014 @ 22:25:22
my heart to her family this disease is evil.God be with you all
May 15, 2014 @ 20:37:27
my heart to your family sweet girl. only a year older than my oldest child this disease is evil,its robs us.youre in heaven now and feeling alive again ,but i am sure youre family had rather have you here. please Lord bewith this girls family. amen
May 18, 2014 @ 02:03:59
I’m sorry to hear of her passing.
May 23, 2014 @ 22:24:45
Thoughts and prayers with her son and family. Lost my sister in April 21, 2008 after years of struggling with this disease.
Dec 22, 2014 @ 01:54:09
Mindy is my niece and I can’t tell all of you enough how much Mindy enjoyed the camponionship you guys gave her one here. Mindy was and amazing girl and always will be. She has a son that is the spitting image of her, I see it more and more in him each day. Mindy would be turning 26 the day after Christmas. I love you Melinda Carol!!
Jun 18, 2015 @ 23:50:04
First off ill say I am so so sorry for this girl I am only 20 and I am battling cushings disease I also have had really bad seizures I am so scared. Nobody around our age should of went through a disease like this. I feel so bad for her family, I understand her fears she went through. God bless this poor girl 🙁
Aug 16, 2015 @ 17:50:52
That’s so sad. I’m so sorry that she had to go through this, and I now realize more than ever that I’m so lucky to have recovered as well as I did. I now thank God more than ever. I’ll pray for her to have a good afterlife.